Saturday, June 11, 2011

Insurance Annoyances

I have had my share of insurance annoyances over the years, but ever since joining government service, I've tried to minimize the headaches by carefully researching plans and making realistic choices for my health needs.  So I'm unimpressed by the insurance headaches I've encountered since being home.

My previous insurance, a modified consumer-driven health plan, worked very well for me.  Preventative care was paid for without deducting from my fund, dental care up to a certain amount was covered each year, and I had ancillary vision benefits.  I also have elected to get additional vision benefits each year so I could get glasses/contacts fairly often.

However, when I moved overseas, I decided that the tailored FS plan (most of you know which one I mean) would be the better choice.  People said it worked well even in the US, and my PCP was in-network.  The price was comparable, the estimated out-of-pocket expenses would be comparable, and if anything catastrophic were to happen overseas, it seemed the easiest to deal with.  (Having had my fair share of overseas medical concerns, I wanted something easy to work with.)

This has not panned out in reality, sadly. 

The new plan only covers a few dollars for dental, so the x-rays I needed this week and the small cavity I had to have filled are all out of pocket.  They would have been covered except for a few dollars overage under my old plan.

The worst, though, is that all of a sudden my PCP is no longer in-network.  I know I checked before switching plans, but when I went in for my annual exam the other day, they didn't seem familiar with the company.  A bit of digging revealed that they are not, in fact, an in-network provider.  And I'm not willing to pay out-of-network costs.  Plus, I am not home long enough to research providers and establish myself as a new patient with someone else.  And I like my PCP.  So, I am going to see if I can do my annual in KSA just to make sure I have continuity of care. 

I am considering switching back next open season to my old plan; the $750 deductible after primary benefit funds are exhausted and before 90% coverage kicks in seems a small price to pay.  Especially because in 16 months of care I never came close to exhausting the primary coverage fund.  The only downside is that I lost the initial fund I'd built up and will have to start from scratch again.  With this current plan I have a $300 deductible that starts immediately and no primary coverage fund.  Plus prescriptions are out of pocket instead of coming from the fund. 

The kicker, though, is that my vision plan is fairly limited for in-network providers at home in NH.  It was great in DC, but there's less choice here, unless I want to go to a big box store super retailer.  Which I don't.  I thought today I'd found a great small practice in southern NH, where I am going this week for shopping anyway.  They said they took my insurance on the website.  But when I called, they said they stopped taking this plan.  The receptionist was slightly unsure because the plans she quoted weren't mine exactly, so the office manager will check Monday.  But I can't find another good place right now.  I don't really need an exam - I mostly want new glasses and prescription sunglasses.  My foray into the world of contact lenses lasted about two days last summer before it became painfully clear that I am inept at inserting said lenses.  Even when I was sitting in the optometrist's office and demonstrating the technique they couldn't figure out why they wouldn't go in.  They wouldn't go in for them, either, so I felt a bit justified.  But it's still frustrating.  I really only need glasses for distance and driving and watching movies, few of which I do in KSA, but the prescription is light enough that I can wear the glasses all day without eye strain, which I often do when I'm going in and out of meetings where I need to read presentations.  And in KSA, having prescription sunglasses would be ideal. 

Still, these headaches are minor compared to the ones I used to have with some of the more annoying companies I used to have to deal with.  I'd spend hours on the phone convincing the insurance company that, yes, I did need an MRI on my knee or that, no, the knee surgery necessitated by the tear shown by said MRI was not, in fact, elective.  I am still paying off that surgery, as it cost far more than the insurance company allowed.  Or electing not to go to the ER when I first injured my knee since I, at that time, didn't have an extra $250 to spend just to walk in the door before insurance kicked in.  My personal favorite, though, was convincing the same insurance company to pay for 6 months of malaria meds instead of 3 months, back before I lived in a place where I could get meds shipped by mail.  I itemized the cost of medevacing me when I developed cerebral malaria versus paying an extra three months of prescription costs up front.  I finally got my meds. 

Thoughts?  Have any of you had concerns Stateside with the FS plan?  Run into difficulties with serious illness with a consumer-driven health plan(CDHP)? 

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Why... It's Astonishing!

It's raining - and the streets aren't flooding!

Women are wearing t-shirts in public!  And driving!

There's pork and alcohol being sold at this store!  There's pork and alcohol being consumed at this party!  There's a party with men and women! 

It's 12:30pm, and the stores aren't closing for prayer!  (Or 3:40pm, or 7:00 pm, or 8:30pm - choose your prayer time!)

Wait, you mean there's only one entrance to this restaurant?  And I can go in it?  And sit wherever I want?

Whoa!  Look at those cars stopping for the red light!  And using their turn signals!  And turning left only from the left-most turning lane!


There's no air conditioning inside any of these houses!  (Wait, this one I don't like...)


That pretty much sums up my experience at home so far.  Lots of exclamation points (mostly in my head) and shocked disbelief at the blatant displays of heavenly vice.  And mostly lawful displays of driving, including by a large number of women. 

I've also been taking advantage of fast internet and downloading copious amounts of music and books and watching lots of Netflix and Hulu.  I forgot that it doesn't have to take an hour to watch a 20 minute show on Netflix...  I really miss fast internet.  I have gotten my fill of real commercials but still don't miss the AFN PSAs.  I love watching the Red Sox and Bruins win often and then watching the Heat lose.  May those streaks continue tonight as well.  I never thought I'd be cheering for the Mavericks, but I am doing so with fervor now!

Last weekend the whole family drove down to Newport, Rhode Island to watch my cousin marry his college sweetheart.  It was a gorgeous wedding and a perfect weekend for a perfect couple, and we had a wonderful time.  I don't ever want to go to a wedding without a 'lobster display' again!  Lobster claw tempura may be the best food ever.  My nephew was the ring bearer, and, despite not having a lot of context or experience for his role, he performed admirably.  (And stood still and quiet through the entire ceremony!)  He was a little miffed that he didn't actually get to carry the rings, but the pillow was pretty sweet.  And he looked so gosh darn adorable in his suit!  He fell head over heels in love with the bride last summer when he met her, so being in the wedding was perfect.  And he got plenty of hugs from his "girlfriend", as he calls her.  Which is a step up from "my older lady friend", which was last summer's term of endearment.  Keep in mind the child is only 4. 

It's been doctor and dentist visits and lots of reading and napping since then.  I don't get Blackberry service at home or even in the vicinity, so I haven't been even tempted to check email.  When I did send a colleague a quick email about how one of our contacts factors into a current US news story, she sent back a much-needed "thanks, we know, now enjoy R&R," email.  A good reminder to just relax.  Which is slightly hard to do as I watch the news coming out of Yemen and the saga of women driving in the Kingdom, but I'm trying. 

I am going to see one of my childhood best friends and her family this weekend after too many years, about which I am thrilled.  More on that next week.  Then, next weekend, a long weekend in Miami for another cousin's wedding!  My mom and I are going to stay in Key West for a night so I can eat conch fritters and stock up on key lime juice.  Yummmm.  Among other touristy pursuits, of course. 

The first tranche bid list came out today.  I of course won't see it until I get back, which is fine with me.  Second tranche comes out soon enough (when I'll be bidding), and too much of a glimpse into what's NOT on my bid list will be anxiety-inducing.  I have my top five or six dream posts, and several of them are probably not anyone else's dream posts (or at least I get really weird looks from people, including the Ambassador, when I mention what they are), but odds are at least half or more of them won't be on my bid list.  So not knowing what might be on there is making me a bit crazy.  Let's just say I don't plan to use my equity to bid Europe, as so many others coming out of KSA do.  To each their own! 

Happy bidding to many of my friends and colleagues!  I'll be asking for advice and recommendations soon enough...

Can you please just email me a copy?

Ah, home sweet home.  It has been a great week, and I've meant to blog, but you know how it gets.

First, I want to congratulate Sara from Wife-Mommy-Woman and her family on their newest baby boy!  I'll let her announce his arrival on her own blog, but I just wanted to say how excited I am for her and the whole family, having gotten to 'watch' the pregnancy on FB and blog.  Congratulations!

Becky at Small Bits is hosting this week's Round Up on a very important FS topic - paperwork!  This is one I could write volumes on, but I'm thankfully not surrounded by the mountains of paperwork I need to go through in my apartment (just the mini-mountains of catalogs and junk mail here), so I am less than inspired.  However, the title of this post pretty much sums up every encounter I have with anyone these days.  When someone helpfully offers to mail/fax/print me a hard copy of something, I cringe and ask if they can do it digitally. 

It's true that paperwork tends to pile up on you in the FS, especially the first year.  A-100 must surely stand for "A 100 inch-high pile of paperwork will be the most tangible result of the next five weeks."  Add to this the need to go through all the paperwork you've accumulated thus far in your life, and it's a daunting amount to deal with.  I am trying desperately to cut down on hard copies of things and had several quite ruthless bouts with a shredder last year.  I bought a scanner/copier/printer combo, which has made life much easier - especially being able to scan hundreds of pages of medical records and the like.  Then I can put the originals in safe storage and keep a couple secure digital copies spread around. 

I am really bad in that I don't deal with paperwork as it piles up.  Instead I pile and pile and pile until it a) falls over or b) attacks me in some way.  Then I put on the television, cozy up on the floor with my X feet-high pile, and start sorting.  It's amazing what you find.  Expired coupons, cards and letters, important insurance documents, papers you've been looking for forever, etc.

The greatest find ever was an un-cashed paycheck for $1,000.  I was so incredibly excited and over the moon but confused over how I'd missed it before.  It was a day or so before I found the matching re-issued check; the first one had gotten lost in the mail, so I'd had my employer re-issue the check.  I never remembered to open/void the first one when it finally came.  Oops.  (This was from a time when I was working about five jobs and traveling a lot, so some things fell by the wayside.)

Right now I have about four or five rubbermaid totes full of paperwork dating back to high school, college, and grad school that I need to go through.  I shipped them with my HHE with the hopes of having an entire room for sorting and shredding.  Of course I ended up with a smaller-than-Oakwood apartment, and they're stacked high in my box room (the tiny second bedroom that is unusable because it's stacked floor-to-ceiling with HHE boxes or piles that won't fit elsewhere because I was under the impression I'd have a human-sized apartment and shipped a generous amount of HHE hoping to sort and shred and give away).  Okay, rant over.  The good news is, once I finally do go through them (which ought to be lots of fun with the kittens!), it'll cut down significantly on my HHE weight to my next post!

I don't have a lot of advice to offer in the FS paperwork genre, but it definitely consumes a lot of time and energy for all of us.  I look forward to reading some other posts to get creative ideas.  Looking through some of Becky's recent pack-out-preparation posts has already been really helpful!

All right, that's a fairly boring post, but it is topical.  Be glad there are no pictures.  I am going to write a quick catch-up post now about the last week. 

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Back in the USA!

I've been back in the U.S. for almost 25 hours, and it's already been wonderful.

The journey home was long but relatively painless.  Almost as soon as I finished my airport blog post, I ran into one of my contacts - a supervisor for Saudia Airlines.  He chastised me for not calling to let him know I was traveling and then ushered me into the business lounge.  I only had another hour before boarding my flight, but getting to relax on a comfy couch, use a clean bathroom, and have fresh juices and pastries was a nice treat. 

The flight to Paris was on time and relatively empty; I had a window seat and an empty seat next to me.  I managed to get some sleep, including some horrific dreams about plane crashes, and woke up as we were landing in Paris.  I checked in for my next flight and managed to swing an aisle seat - much better than the middle seat on my original reservation.  I indulged in an expensive but blissful manicure in the terminal at 7am and then proceeded to drool over gorgeous but expensive Jacquard Français table linens and decided it would be worth having to declare at customs in order to bring in camembert.  At my gate, I managed to get a window seat after all and snagged a modernist recumbent chair for a quick nap before boarding.  This flight was full but not oppressive - the 2-3-2 seat arrangement is much better than the dreaded 3-4-3.  Again I was able to sleep for a few hours (thankfully with no more plane crash dreams) and listened to Tina Fey's new memoir on my iPod.  It's quite funny if you haven't had the chance to read/listen yet.

We landed in Boston on time, and both my suitcases made the flight.  My cheese barely registered a second glance at customs, and I had time to switch terminals to make sure I was among the first on the bus to NH.  (I live about 2.5 hours from Boston, but there's a great charter bus line that provides direct service multiple times each day to and from the airport and a town near to where I live.  It's relatively cheap and always quite comfortable.  The buses run on time and are clean, the drivers are great, complimentary water and pretzels are available, they play a movie, and there's wi-fi and charging terminals.) 

As I waited for the bus, I marveled at the Americana.  The drivers weren't crazy and cutting one another off.  Women were wearing normal clothes in public.  There wasn't a thobe or abaya in sight.  The Bruins in the Stanley Cup Finals was a hot topic.  And the weather was tolerable!  I teared up just a little bit...

The bus was on time and pretty empty.  I managed to check email and Facebook with the spotty connection and finished up my book.  I had forgotten how green New England was!  Not a palm tree or sand pile in sight.  And it rained a bit on the drive north!

Mom picked me up at the bus station, and I teared up a little again.  I shivered in the relative cold of 85 degrees.  I almost broke the car door by slamming it with significant force.  I guess I'm too accustomed to armored vehicles...

We surprised my dad by dropping in to say hi at the restaurant where he was having his regular weekly discussion night with friends.  (I think it's code for happy hour.)  I gave him the Al Saudia ball cap complete with a shemagh-decorated camel I found at the airport in Jeddah.  He had very nicely gone home after work to drop off the fixings for reubens before going back into town for the discussion group, so when we got home Mom and I had a great dinner. 

Louie Dog seemed glad to see me and eagerly showed me his new trick - shaking hands.  Mind you this dog is gigantic and his paws are almost bigger than my hands.  But as soon as he got food in his dish, he turned around and growled at me.  This is a weird complex he has - he's convinced I'm going to steal his food.  I never have.  I've never even tried.  But this doesn't stop him from growling at me whenever there's dog food around.  He doesn't do this to anyone else, I'm told, and hadn't done it in the seven months since I'd last seen him.  But he didn't miss a beat. 

I watched some mindless television and marveled at the non-AFN commercials.  How ever will I live without being constantly reminded about the perils of domestic violence, suicide prevention, alcoholism, putting important documents in my household effects, and how I can contact the military chaplains!?  A tornado whisked through Massachusetts last night, touching down in Springfield and sadly killing several people.  There were tornado warnings throughout MA and parts of NH, but luckily not near us. 

I got super sleepy about 9pm while watching an episode of my parent's new favorite show - Treme - about post-Katrina New Orleans.  I fell asleep only a few pages into my book.  Wide awake at 4am but managed to go back to sleep until 8.  Tried to nap around noon but couldn't.  Now I've showered, partly unpacked, gotten presents ready for distribution (I always come home with tons of souvenirs), and am wavering between awake and sleepy. 

The two things I've most looked forward to - driving and Poland Spring's sparkling water - will have to wait another couple hours until one of my parents gets home from work with a vehicle. 

I've already scheduled a haircut and pedicure for tomorrow and my annual well checkup and dental cleaning for next week and called in prescription refills.  I am feeling productive!

And now to settle in and wait until I can drive to the store and get some seltzer :-). 

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Leaving on a Jet Plane...

It's finally here.  After many months of thinking it would never come, I am officially on vacation.  Not for a long weekend, but for three long weeks.  I'm sitting in the Jeddah airport now, checked in and waiting for boarding.  I am told my flight to Paris is not very full, and I've snagged a window seat.  I am glad, because I know my flight to Boston is pretty full, and I'm (for now) stuck in a middle seat.  Hopefully I can get a bit of sleep so I am not a zombie for my several hours in CDG.  I haven't been to CDG since I was 13, so this brings back memories.  That was actually the first time I ever flew, for an exchange program in France with several classmates and teachers.  I've been to Paris since then, but overland. 

Amazingly, I think I got everything done on my to-do list and was able to walk out of the office calmly this afternoon.  There are of course projects I didn't get to, but all the major items got taken care of.  So now, even as I check my Blackberry for those last few messages trickling in from Washington, I am working on mentally checking out.  I have 26 long hours to work on that before arriving home tomorrow. 

I haven't had a vacation this long in a few years, but I know it'll go quickly.  Trips up and down the East Coast for family weddings, reuniting with childhood friends I haven't seen in years, lots of sleeping in, spoiling my niece and nephew, and getting my fill of driving and all those little freedoms I miss here will surely make time fly.  But, regardless, it will be my own little Operation Sanity Retrieval.

Of course the down side to leaving is having to say goodbye to the cats.  Even though they'll be in good hands with my doting housekeeper, I hate leaving them.  I've already been working so much lately that they're starved for attention, and now they'll be on their own for entertainment except for a couple hours each day.  I gave poor Griffin a summer haircut this week, refusing to take him back to the groomer for fear of another lion cut, and he looks adorable.  It's a terrible haircut, but it's still kind of cute. 

Anyway, enough rambling.  Time to crack a good book on the Kindle and settle in for the hour before boarding.  More soon from the land of fast, functional internet!

Friday, May 27, 2011

State Department Blog RoundUp

All right!  It is still technically Friday, so I am not as horrifically late as I thought I would be.  This week, month even, has been... challenging.  That's a good word.  Now I only have a semi-normal three-day week before I get to spend 24 hours flying 6,000 miles home!  Now that's a great beginning to summer if I ever knew one!

This is a busy time of year for everyone, I think, so we only had a few Round Up submissions.  The rest are a collection of posts I've managed to read this week - only a small sampling of what's out there.

Having not had a chance to write my own post on this week's OTP, I'll put in a few sentences here.  I think for me, the most surefire sign that summer was coming each year was the transition to outdoor living.  Coming home from school or work and hanging out outside talking about our days with my family rather than doing so inside was always a welcome change.  We spend a lot of time in the backyard and do a lot of grilling, so it becomes the locus of life.  My mom works on her gardens, my dad gets the lawn and fields in tip-top shape, the large garden gets planted and maintained, my nieces and nephews play and run and frolic, and the whole family basks in the sunshine and newly-green environment.

So with that as a backdrop, let's venture on to everyone else's summer transitions and busy days:

Whale Ears and Wonderings took a great trip down memory lane in honor of Memorial Day, with lots of fun photos!  She also mentions a bakery that an Arabic classmate (who is now also in Amman) and I heard about last year and thought was the greatest name for a bakery ever!  Go to WE&W's post to find out more!

Stephanie at Where in the World Am I? is excited about her first Indian vacation over Memorial Day weekend, which was more work than she anticipated but should be a great time!  Have fun!

A Postcard From... has a beautiful post from her R&R trip to Ko Phi Phi.  I never made it to the southern islands when I lived in Thailand, but this post has me wanting to get back there soon!

Rambles and Ruminations is celebrating the beginning of summer in the best possible way - by finishing up a semester of grad school craziness!  Congrats on being halfway done!

Small Bits, taking a brief break from the border, has a memory-inducing experience looking through a thesis draft for a good friend.

Muttering Behind the Hardline had a tough week but was touched by the outpouring of support offered by the FS blogger community.  I think we've all been there, so best of luck!

Life After Jerusalem can take a breath of relief after her last progress test and takes some time to address work-life balance, a tough thing for any FS family.

Cyberbones is trying to both support and avoid her son's newest obsession in a post I can't even read in its entirety because it touches on my greatest fear and induces scary physiological reactions.  But I do encourage you to read it and then look at the post that inspired it all!

Misplaced Texan, an A-100 classmate and real-life friend of mine (with a newly public blog!), posted on the exciting news that bid lists are coming out sooner than we expected!

Two Crabs is also thinking about second-tour bidding...

The Dinoia family is starting to see some progress in dealing with incorrect hospital billing, which makes the end of radiation treatments that much sweeter!  Congrats Jen!

Last week's Round Up host, Ogles and Observations, has an exciting milestone to celebrate this week.

Tuk and Tam made a pretty amazing cake this week - check out her epic endeavor and see the phenomenal final product.  There's a project for another day, for sure!

Something Edited This Way Comes posted her toddler son's photo essay of Venice, which I thought was very artfully done.

Adrian at Life in the Land of the Long White Cloud has a third entry in his series of extreme Kiwi posts.  I still regret that my trip to NZ a few years back did not manage to include Zorbing...

Pulling Stakes' oldest displays his perfect sense of timing and distraction in this post.

Diplomatic Mom had no idea that her son's underwear would help her meet her neighbors, as evidenced in this post

The Afghan Plan, musing while on R&R, has some reflections on the training (or lack thereof?) he received prior to arriving at his PRT.  Good reading for those of you heading to AIP outposts this transfer season...

Email From the Embassy is busy, busy, busy these days but still has some time to reflect on living in the Middle East these days, a topic near and dear to my heart.

Lisa at What Were We Thinking has a very enjoyable (and creative) approach to weaning her youngest and is looking forward to a similar approach with potty training. 

Just Us heads to the Dead Sea for a fun family outing, complete with lots of mud and floating. 

Jill at The Perlman Update said goodbye to her husband for the last time (!) and is looking forward to a busy two weeks before their unaccompanied tour is over!  Congratulations on making it to the home stretch! 

Nomad by Nature's floppy-eared kid had a fun playdate with his brother, with beautiful pictures to show for it.

Well That Was Different had a great week, with a new house and a school acceptance to show for it!

And, last but not least, a special shout-out to a couple of blogs by FS kids.

Hannah at Millimania across the Globe blogs about life in Amman and life in the FS.

Morgan at Running to South America, himself the son of two prolific FS bloggers, is raising money for an awesome rugby trip to South America this summer/winter.  The vehicle for doing so:  the Wellington Marathon. 

All right, that's all for now.  Next week's FS Blog Round Up is up for grabs at A Daring Adventure.  It's not that hard, I promise!

Have a wonderful Memorial Day long weekend!

Sunday, May 22, 2011

State Department Blog Round Up: Call for Submissions

All right FS bloggers!  It's once again time for me to host a State Department Blog Round Up, for Friday, May 27th, 2011.  (Which is coincidentally my oldest nephew's 19th birthday!)
I fully admit early on, though, that I may be a tad late with the RoundUp, as I have work visitors in town all week and will be working Thursday and part of Friday, which is usually my weekend.  Nonetheless, the Round Up will go on!

We're coming up on Memorial Day weekend, that wonderful late May long weekend that serves three important purposes.  First, and most importantly, it is a time to remember the many men and women who have given their lives in service to our great country and to honor their efforts and memories.  Second, for those not working in the education sector, it is the first long weekend since February, which, let me tell you, is a very long three months.  And finally, it serves as a gateway to summer.  Whether one celebrates with barbecues, picnics, trips to the beach, the first camping trip of the season, preparing the gardens and lawns after a long winter, or other similar activity, Memorial Day weekend is the time we say goodbye to winter and hello to summer.  (Now I know what you're thinking - some of you are lucky enough to have a long spring in between winter and summer.  However, I grew up in New Hampshire, where we almost always have snow lingering into April and horrific mud seasons into May.  So spring is a bit of a blink-and-you-miss-it season in those parts.)

So.

The optional talking point for this week's Round Up is your memories/traditions/rituals/etc. about Memorial Day weekend and/or the beginning of summer.  You may, of course, submit posts on other subjects as well.

In keeping with the new RoundUp format, please link to your blog (or others you want included) in the comments section.  Alternatively, you can email me.

Happy blogging!

Friday, May 20, 2011

'Arab Spring' has been unseasonably mild here

I really have meant to post more often. With more interesting fodder than simply excuses for not writing. But all of a sudden I have been busier than ever with work. Which is great - I like being busy. But right now I'm acting section chief, filling in for the other two FSO positions in my office for a few weeks. Add that to one of our busiest periods since my arrival at post, and you've created the perfect recipe for a too-busy-to-blog situation. All of a sudden I've gone from counting down wistfully to R&R to now frantically thinking it's coming up too fast and lamenting my lack of packing time. Most of every day between now and my departure is fully accounted for already!

So here's a few random tidbits to tide you over until this frantic period comes to an end.

The weather the past couple of weeks has been unseasonably wonderful. We've had a longer-than-average and milder spring this year, I'm told, and, even though the days are hot and humid, the nights have been blissful. Low humidity, warm without being stifling, and always a gentle breeze to cool the air a bit. Plus, the omnipresent mosquitoes seem to have gone into hiding. This has made for several very pleasant evening events lately.

Jeddah's main roads are once again lined with Saudi flags on every light post, and there's a frantic effort to tidy things up. What does this mean? It means the King is coming soon. Every summer the King and many other senior royals and government ministers move to Jeddah, effectively shifting the locus of operations. This has increased work implications for our Consulate of course, so we've been trying to figure out when the shift will occur. Judging from the flags and now building-sized banners being erected all over town in honor of the King, any day now.

I was sitting on the couch and checking email one sunny morning last weekend, and my cats were soaking up sun rays. But as I watched them pick their favorite spots, Griffin did something very interesting. They love to lie in front of the sliding glass door to my itsy-bitsy balcony, as they have direct sunlight in the morning. I have a chair for one to snuggle on and a cat pad on the floor for the other. But instead of curling up on the pad as usual, Griffin burrowed underneath it, with only his tail and backside sticking out towards the door and sun. It must have been a bit too hot to be in full sunlight, but he still wanted his rays, so this was the next-best solution. Smart cat.

Today the cats were chasing themselves around the living room and generally wreaking havoc. I heard one of them jump up on the table behind me, and, before I knew it, I was yelling "Hattie get down from there!" I immediately realized what I'd said, but it had just slipped out. Such a natural reaction.

Last week I had the privilege of attending the graduation ceremony of a local women's college. Among the graduates was the inaugural class of Saudi Arabia's first engineering degree program for women. Quite a momentous occasion to be among these history-makers. What a great occasion to celebrate, and celebrate they did!

Right now there's an interesting story emerging in Saudi Arabia. A group of women have decided to defy the Kingdom's ban on female drivers and take to the roads on June 17th. Their Facebook page is attracting thousands of fans from the world over, and the story is beginning to go viral. See CNN's video here. It almost makes me wish I'd be in KSA on June 17th instead of in Miami. Almost. But if this happens, it'll be fascinating to watch. The last time a group of women did this, in the early 1990s in response to seeing female American soldiers driving vehicles as they prepared for the first Gulf War, there were serious consequences. The participating women lost their jobs and were banned from travel for several years, among other punishments. So far there's been no SAG reaction or warnings against this. I'll just keep watching.

And now it's time to enjoy what's left of the weekend and make a nice pasta and relax for a while. I have a busy but fun week ahead of me.

Friday, May 13, 2011

It may not be vice, but it sure ain't virtue!

I've been meaning to post this photo for a while. But this week the story has gotten even more intriguing, so it's finally time.

A couple of months ago, I was driving being driven home with a group of friends after a girls' night, and I spied this sign while we were stopped at a red light.






















I couldn't even speak I was laughing so hard. Those of you who know me in real life and have witnessed one of my laugh-so-hard-I-can't-breathe episodes know what I mean. At first people were worried about me. Then someone else saw it, and then everyone, and the van erupted in fits of laughter. I mean, this sign would never appear so publicly in the U.S., let alone at multiple stop lights on one of the busiest roads in the city. Even better, the Arabic version roughly translates as "laser cosmetic surgery for women." (Or at least most of the versions do. I can't read the second word in this one closely enough to double-check. This is a friend's photo; I never managed to time my photography well enough.)

In a country where the Committee for the Prevention of Vice and Promotion of Virtue goes around separating groups of unrelated men and women and forcing women to cover themselves, this advertisement just seemed so incongruous. And yet, it became the biggest joke in the city, delighting residents and visitors alike. Around the same time, at least two electronic billboards in town started prominently displaying ads for a certain personal lubricant.

The plot thickens slightly - yesterday I realized that a number of the English sides of the sign had been replaced with other advertisements. Apparently someone clued in. Disappointing. But, it certainly livened the otherwise humdrum commute while it lasted!