Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Total Lunar Eclipse, Part II

I was born 28 days after my due date.  In the middle of summer.  My parents, tired of people asking if I'd been born yet, just stopped answering the phone.  This wouldn't happen these days, but it happened then.  Early in my mom's pregnancy, as legend goes, one of my elderly Polish relatives (maybe my great-grandmother?) put her hand on my mother's stomach and said that the child (me) would wait for the ninth cycle of the moon.

I was born on the night of a total lunar eclipse, a fairly major one of the last century.  My mother relays the story that, while she was in labor, the doctor, nurse, and my father were on the roof of the hospital watching the eclipse. 

Today is another such total lunar eclipse, though it isn't visible over North America, sadly.  It is, however, momentous in that is the first Inex series lunar eclipse since the night of my birth.  According to Wikipedia, "the Inex series repeat eclipses 20 days short of 29 years, repeating on average every 10571.95 days."

I actually think this is a much cooler marker of time than a birthday...

Kandyan Dance Videos

More videos!

This time from a dance performance at a cultural center in Kandy, Sri Lanka. 


 


 








Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Elephant Videos!

I just realized one of the benefits of super fast internet is that I can now post videos from the last several months!

Apologies for any grainy video - I just uploaded the .mov files from iPhoto without doing any editing or anything, so they may not be of as high quality as they are on my computer.  

So here's elephants heading into the water for their afternoon bath at Pinnawela Elephant Orphanage in Sri Lanka:



And here's one of them splashing around a few minutes later:



And here's a vocal little guy - such a strong voice for a little elephant!

 


And because I can't resist, here's one of a herd of elephants bathing at Uda Walawe National Park:



And, lastly, a solitary bull at Uda Walawe.


More Cheese With That Whine?

All right, I've been writing random thoughts down for days now without getting anywhere near a coherent post, so here are said random thoughts so I can now concentrate on a post about seeing long-lost friends.  Which may well take longer than it should.  And this collection of thoughts sounds awfully whiny now that I read it through.  Sigh.

Before I begin - Blogger is showing a huge and sustained increase in the number of page hits this blog is receiving.  So if you're a new reader, welcome!  And if, more likely, Blogger's stats function is on the fritz, is anyone else having the same issue?

Boy listening to the radio sure does catch you up quickly on pop culture references you've been puzzling over for months...  But can I just ask why the Kardashians are so popular?  I just don't get it.

Yesterday I made the requisite pilgrimages to Basketville and The Vermont Country Store.  I now have a great new collection of beautiful (and hopefully functional) baskets on its way to KSA, and I've stocked up on New England oddities and confectionaries for the next few months.

It's June 14th, and we have a fire going in the woodstove in order to stay warm.  Last week we had a heatwave, and now it's cold and rainy.  I am not really complaining - it makes sleeping pleasant, and I haven't had a lot of outdoor activities this week, so it's not interfering with too many things. 

Not having a car AND not having access to motorpool is challenging.  I can (and often do) take one of my parents to work in the morning and use said car for the day, but that involves getting up early and having a very scheduled day, which is less than ideal on vacation.  That combined with living in the middle of nowhere makes for not getting too many things knocked off my to-do list.  I am starting to come to terms (albeit slowly) with not getting to Trader Joe's on this trip, since apparently there are none in Florida (and none less than a two-hour drive from my house).  I guess stocking up on my favorite pasta sauce was not meant to be this time around.

The real culprit behind my not posting more often is the fact that I have acquired a nasty cough and persistent aches in my neck and head.  It started off innocently enough and became a monster.  I actually lost my voice over the weekend (full story to be explained in a subsequent post), and the cough became more pronounced and joined with an upset tummy.  So of course I've been feeling sorry for myself and watching a lot of Netflix and trying to sleep.  I woke up this morning with a sore ear, but thankfully that's subsided, as has the cough to some extent.  My voice is still pretty weak, but it's rebounding.

Tomorrow is another recovery day with some time for laundry and packing for Miami!  Plus dinner with my brother and his fiancée and kids.  And then off to Florida on Thursday!

(Oh! And the reason that this subject makes sense is that I've been buying and eating a lot of my favorite cheeses that I can't get in KSA, mostly soft cheeses and some fresh mozzarellas.  And occasionally running across a decent French baguette.  Yummmm.)

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Insurance Annoyances

I have had my share of insurance annoyances over the years, but ever since joining government service, I've tried to minimize the headaches by carefully researching plans and making realistic choices for my health needs.  So I'm unimpressed by the insurance headaches I've encountered since being home.

My previous insurance, a modified consumer-driven health plan, worked very well for me.  Preventative care was paid for without deducting from my fund, dental care up to a certain amount was covered each year, and I had ancillary vision benefits.  I also have elected to get additional vision benefits each year so I could get glasses/contacts fairly often.

However, when I moved overseas, I decided that the tailored FS plan (most of you know which one I mean) would be the better choice.  People said it worked well even in the US, and my PCP was in-network.  The price was comparable, the estimated out-of-pocket expenses would be comparable, and if anything catastrophic were to happen overseas, it seemed the easiest to deal with.  (Having had my fair share of overseas medical concerns, I wanted something easy to work with.)

This has not panned out in reality, sadly. 

The new plan only covers a few dollars for dental, so the x-rays I needed this week and the small cavity I had to have filled are all out of pocket.  They would have been covered except for a few dollars overage under my old plan.

The worst, though, is that all of a sudden my PCP is no longer in-network.  I know I checked before switching plans, but when I went in for my annual exam the other day, they didn't seem familiar with the company.  A bit of digging revealed that they are not, in fact, an in-network provider.  And I'm not willing to pay out-of-network costs.  Plus, I am not home long enough to research providers and establish myself as a new patient with someone else.  And I like my PCP.  So, I am going to see if I can do my annual in KSA just to make sure I have continuity of care. 

I am considering switching back next open season to my old plan; the $750 deductible after primary benefit funds are exhausted and before 90% coverage kicks in seems a small price to pay.  Especially because in 16 months of care I never came close to exhausting the primary coverage fund.  The only downside is that I lost the initial fund I'd built up and will have to start from scratch again.  With this current plan I have a $300 deductible that starts immediately and no primary coverage fund.  Plus prescriptions are out of pocket instead of coming from the fund. 

The kicker, though, is that my vision plan is fairly limited for in-network providers at home in NH.  It was great in DC, but there's less choice here, unless I want to go to a big box store super retailer.  Which I don't.  I thought today I'd found a great small practice in southern NH, where I am going this week for shopping anyway.  They said they took my insurance on the website.  But when I called, they said they stopped taking this plan.  The receptionist was slightly unsure because the plans she quoted weren't mine exactly, so the office manager will check Monday.  But I can't find another good place right now.  I don't really need an exam - I mostly want new glasses and prescription sunglasses.  My foray into the world of contact lenses lasted about two days last summer before it became painfully clear that I am inept at inserting said lenses.  Even when I was sitting in the optometrist's office and demonstrating the technique they couldn't figure out why they wouldn't go in.  They wouldn't go in for them, either, so I felt a bit justified.  But it's still frustrating.  I really only need glasses for distance and driving and watching movies, few of which I do in KSA, but the prescription is light enough that I can wear the glasses all day without eye strain, which I often do when I'm going in and out of meetings where I need to read presentations.  And in KSA, having prescription sunglasses would be ideal. 

Still, these headaches are minor compared to the ones I used to have with some of the more annoying companies I used to have to deal with.  I'd spend hours on the phone convincing the insurance company that, yes, I did need an MRI on my knee or that, no, the knee surgery necessitated by the tear shown by said MRI was not, in fact, elective.  I am still paying off that surgery, as it cost far more than the insurance company allowed.  Or electing not to go to the ER when I first injured my knee since I, at that time, didn't have an extra $250 to spend just to walk in the door before insurance kicked in.  My personal favorite, though, was convincing the same insurance company to pay for 6 months of malaria meds instead of 3 months, back before I lived in a place where I could get meds shipped by mail.  I itemized the cost of medevacing me when I developed cerebral malaria versus paying an extra three months of prescription costs up front.  I finally got my meds. 

Thoughts?  Have any of you had concerns Stateside with the FS plan?  Run into difficulties with serious illness with a consumer-driven health plan(CDHP)? 

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Why... It's Astonishing!

It's raining - and the streets aren't flooding!

Women are wearing t-shirts in public!  And driving!

There's pork and alcohol being sold at this store!  There's pork and alcohol being consumed at this party!  There's a party with men and women! 

It's 12:30pm, and the stores aren't closing for prayer!  (Or 3:40pm, or 7:00 pm, or 8:30pm - choose your prayer time!)

Wait, you mean there's only one entrance to this restaurant?  And I can go in it?  And sit wherever I want?

Whoa!  Look at those cars stopping for the red light!  And using their turn signals!  And turning left only from the left-most turning lane!


There's no air conditioning inside any of these houses!  (Wait, this one I don't like...)


That pretty much sums up my experience at home so far.  Lots of exclamation points (mostly in my head) and shocked disbelief at the blatant displays of heavenly vice.  And mostly lawful displays of driving, including by a large number of women. 

I've also been taking advantage of fast internet and downloading copious amounts of music and books and watching lots of Netflix and Hulu.  I forgot that it doesn't have to take an hour to watch a 20 minute show on Netflix...  I really miss fast internet.  I have gotten my fill of real commercials but still don't miss the AFN PSAs.  I love watching the Red Sox and Bruins win often and then watching the Heat lose.  May those streaks continue tonight as well.  I never thought I'd be cheering for the Mavericks, but I am doing so with fervor now!

Last weekend the whole family drove down to Newport, Rhode Island to watch my cousin marry his college sweetheart.  It was a gorgeous wedding and a perfect weekend for a perfect couple, and we had a wonderful time.  I don't ever want to go to a wedding without a 'lobster display' again!  Lobster claw tempura may be the best food ever.  My nephew was the ring bearer, and, despite not having a lot of context or experience for his role, he performed admirably.  (And stood still and quiet through the entire ceremony!)  He was a little miffed that he didn't actually get to carry the rings, but the pillow was pretty sweet.  And he looked so gosh darn adorable in his suit!  He fell head over heels in love with the bride last summer when he met her, so being in the wedding was perfect.  And he got plenty of hugs from his "girlfriend", as he calls her.  Which is a step up from "my older lady friend", which was last summer's term of endearment.  Keep in mind the child is only 4. 

It's been doctor and dentist visits and lots of reading and napping since then.  I don't get Blackberry service at home or even in the vicinity, so I haven't been even tempted to check email.  When I did send a colleague a quick email about how one of our contacts factors into a current US news story, she sent back a much-needed "thanks, we know, now enjoy R&R," email.  A good reminder to just relax.  Which is slightly hard to do as I watch the news coming out of Yemen and the saga of women driving in the Kingdom, but I'm trying. 

I am going to see one of my childhood best friends and her family this weekend after too many years, about which I am thrilled.  More on that next week.  Then, next weekend, a long weekend in Miami for another cousin's wedding!  My mom and I are going to stay in Key West for a night so I can eat conch fritters and stock up on key lime juice.  Yummmm.  Among other touristy pursuits, of course. 

The first tranche bid list came out today.  I of course won't see it until I get back, which is fine with me.  Second tranche comes out soon enough (when I'll be bidding), and too much of a glimpse into what's NOT on my bid list will be anxiety-inducing.  I have my top five or six dream posts, and several of them are probably not anyone else's dream posts (or at least I get really weird looks from people, including the Ambassador, when I mention what they are), but odds are at least half or more of them won't be on my bid list.  So not knowing what might be on there is making me a bit crazy.  Let's just say I don't plan to use my equity to bid Europe, as so many others coming out of KSA do.  To each their own! 

Happy bidding to many of my friends and colleagues!  I'll be asking for advice and recommendations soon enough...

Can you please just email me a copy?

Ah, home sweet home.  It has been a great week, and I've meant to blog, but you know how it gets.

First, I want to congratulate Sara from Wife-Mommy-Woman and her family on their newest baby boy!  I'll let her announce his arrival on her own blog, but I just wanted to say how excited I am for her and the whole family, having gotten to 'watch' the pregnancy on FB and blog.  Congratulations!

Becky at Small Bits is hosting this week's Round Up on a very important FS topic - paperwork!  This is one I could write volumes on, but I'm thankfully not surrounded by the mountains of paperwork I need to go through in my apartment (just the mini-mountains of catalogs and junk mail here), so I am less than inspired.  However, the title of this post pretty much sums up every encounter I have with anyone these days.  When someone helpfully offers to mail/fax/print me a hard copy of something, I cringe and ask if they can do it digitally. 

It's true that paperwork tends to pile up on you in the FS, especially the first year.  A-100 must surely stand for "A 100 inch-high pile of paperwork will be the most tangible result of the next five weeks."  Add to this the need to go through all the paperwork you've accumulated thus far in your life, and it's a daunting amount to deal with.  I am trying desperately to cut down on hard copies of things and had several quite ruthless bouts with a shredder last year.  I bought a scanner/copier/printer combo, which has made life much easier - especially being able to scan hundreds of pages of medical records and the like.  Then I can put the originals in safe storage and keep a couple secure digital copies spread around. 

I am really bad in that I don't deal with paperwork as it piles up.  Instead I pile and pile and pile until it a) falls over or b) attacks me in some way.  Then I put on the television, cozy up on the floor with my X feet-high pile, and start sorting.  It's amazing what you find.  Expired coupons, cards and letters, important insurance documents, papers you've been looking for forever, etc.

The greatest find ever was an un-cashed paycheck for $1,000.  I was so incredibly excited and over the moon but confused over how I'd missed it before.  It was a day or so before I found the matching re-issued check; the first one had gotten lost in the mail, so I'd had my employer re-issue the check.  I never remembered to open/void the first one when it finally came.  Oops.  (This was from a time when I was working about five jobs and traveling a lot, so some things fell by the wayside.)

Right now I have about four or five rubbermaid totes full of paperwork dating back to high school, college, and grad school that I need to go through.  I shipped them with my HHE with the hopes of having an entire room for sorting and shredding.  Of course I ended up with a smaller-than-Oakwood apartment, and they're stacked high in my box room (the tiny second bedroom that is unusable because it's stacked floor-to-ceiling with HHE boxes or piles that won't fit elsewhere because I was under the impression I'd have a human-sized apartment and shipped a generous amount of HHE hoping to sort and shred and give away).  Okay, rant over.  The good news is, once I finally do go through them (which ought to be lots of fun with the kittens!), it'll cut down significantly on my HHE weight to my next post!

I don't have a lot of advice to offer in the FS paperwork genre, but it definitely consumes a lot of time and energy for all of us.  I look forward to reading some other posts to get creative ideas.  Looking through some of Becky's recent pack-out-preparation posts has already been really helpful!

All right, that's a fairly boring post, but it is topical.  Be glad there are no pictures.  I am going to write a quick catch-up post now about the last week. 

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Back in the USA!

I've been back in the U.S. for almost 25 hours, and it's already been wonderful.

The journey home was long but relatively painless.  Almost as soon as I finished my airport blog post, I ran into one of my contacts - a supervisor for Saudia Airlines.  He chastised me for not calling to let him know I was traveling and then ushered me into the business lounge.  I only had another hour before boarding my flight, but getting to relax on a comfy couch, use a clean bathroom, and have fresh juices and pastries was a nice treat. 

The flight to Paris was on time and relatively empty; I had a window seat and an empty seat next to me.  I managed to get some sleep, including some horrific dreams about plane crashes, and woke up as we were landing in Paris.  I checked in for my next flight and managed to swing an aisle seat - much better than the middle seat on my original reservation.  I indulged in an expensive but blissful manicure in the terminal at 7am and then proceeded to drool over gorgeous but expensive Jacquard Français table linens and decided it would be worth having to declare at customs in order to bring in camembert.  At my gate, I managed to get a window seat after all and snagged a modernist recumbent chair for a quick nap before boarding.  This flight was full but not oppressive - the 2-3-2 seat arrangement is much better than the dreaded 3-4-3.  Again I was able to sleep for a few hours (thankfully with no more plane crash dreams) and listened to Tina Fey's new memoir on my iPod.  It's quite funny if you haven't had the chance to read/listen yet.

We landed in Boston on time, and both my suitcases made the flight.  My cheese barely registered a second glance at customs, and I had time to switch terminals to make sure I was among the first on the bus to NH.  (I live about 2.5 hours from Boston, but there's a great charter bus line that provides direct service multiple times each day to and from the airport and a town near to where I live.  It's relatively cheap and always quite comfortable.  The buses run on time and are clean, the drivers are great, complimentary water and pretzels are available, they play a movie, and there's wi-fi and charging terminals.) 

As I waited for the bus, I marveled at the Americana.  The drivers weren't crazy and cutting one another off.  Women were wearing normal clothes in public.  There wasn't a thobe or abaya in sight.  The Bruins in the Stanley Cup Finals was a hot topic.  And the weather was tolerable!  I teared up just a little bit...

The bus was on time and pretty empty.  I managed to check email and Facebook with the spotty connection and finished up my book.  I had forgotten how green New England was!  Not a palm tree or sand pile in sight.  And it rained a bit on the drive north!

Mom picked me up at the bus station, and I teared up a little again.  I shivered in the relative cold of 85 degrees.  I almost broke the car door by slamming it with significant force.  I guess I'm too accustomed to armored vehicles...

We surprised my dad by dropping in to say hi at the restaurant where he was having his regular weekly discussion night with friends.  (I think it's code for happy hour.)  I gave him the Al Saudia ball cap complete with a shemagh-decorated camel I found at the airport in Jeddah.  He had very nicely gone home after work to drop off the fixings for reubens before going back into town for the discussion group, so when we got home Mom and I had a great dinner. 

Louie Dog seemed glad to see me and eagerly showed me his new trick - shaking hands.  Mind you this dog is gigantic and his paws are almost bigger than my hands.  But as soon as he got food in his dish, he turned around and growled at me.  This is a weird complex he has - he's convinced I'm going to steal his food.  I never have.  I've never even tried.  But this doesn't stop him from growling at me whenever there's dog food around.  He doesn't do this to anyone else, I'm told, and hadn't done it in the seven months since I'd last seen him.  But he didn't miss a beat. 

I watched some mindless television and marveled at the non-AFN commercials.  How ever will I live without being constantly reminded about the perils of domestic violence, suicide prevention, alcoholism, putting important documents in my household effects, and how I can contact the military chaplains!?  A tornado whisked through Massachusetts last night, touching down in Springfield and sadly killing several people.  There were tornado warnings throughout MA and parts of NH, but luckily not near us. 

I got super sleepy about 9pm while watching an episode of my parent's new favorite show - Treme - about post-Katrina New Orleans.  I fell asleep only a few pages into my book.  Wide awake at 4am but managed to go back to sleep until 8.  Tried to nap around noon but couldn't.  Now I've showered, partly unpacked, gotten presents ready for distribution (I always come home with tons of souvenirs), and am wavering between awake and sleepy. 

The two things I've most looked forward to - driving and Poland Spring's sparkling water - will have to wait another couple hours until one of my parents gets home from work with a vehicle. 

I've already scheduled a haircut and pedicure for tomorrow and my annual well checkup and dental cleaning for next week and called in prescription refills.  I am feeling productive!

And now to settle in and wait until I can drive to the store and get some seltzer :-). 

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Leaving on a Jet Plane...

It's finally here.  After many months of thinking it would never come, I am officially on vacation.  Not for a long weekend, but for three long weeks.  I'm sitting in the Jeddah airport now, checked in and waiting for boarding.  I am told my flight to Paris is not very full, and I've snagged a window seat.  I am glad, because I know my flight to Boston is pretty full, and I'm (for now) stuck in a middle seat.  Hopefully I can get a bit of sleep so I am not a zombie for my several hours in CDG.  I haven't been to CDG since I was 13, so this brings back memories.  That was actually the first time I ever flew, for an exchange program in France with several classmates and teachers.  I've been to Paris since then, but overland. 

Amazingly, I think I got everything done on my to-do list and was able to walk out of the office calmly this afternoon.  There are of course projects I didn't get to, but all the major items got taken care of.  So now, even as I check my Blackberry for those last few messages trickling in from Washington, I am working on mentally checking out.  I have 26 long hours to work on that before arriving home tomorrow. 

I haven't had a vacation this long in a few years, but I know it'll go quickly.  Trips up and down the East Coast for family weddings, reuniting with childhood friends I haven't seen in years, lots of sleeping in, spoiling my niece and nephew, and getting my fill of driving and all those little freedoms I miss here will surely make time fly.  But, regardless, it will be my own little Operation Sanity Retrieval.

Of course the down side to leaving is having to say goodbye to the cats.  Even though they'll be in good hands with my doting housekeeper, I hate leaving them.  I've already been working so much lately that they're starved for attention, and now they'll be on their own for entertainment except for a couple hours each day.  I gave poor Griffin a summer haircut this week, refusing to take him back to the groomer for fear of another lion cut, and he looks adorable.  It's a terrible haircut, but it's still kind of cute. 

Anyway, enough rambling.  Time to crack a good book on the Kindle and settle in for the hour before boarding.  More soon from the land of fast, functional internet!